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February, it’s Love month ones again. Valentines Day to most of the people is such a big deal! Women or even girls worry too much over not having someone to date with on that particular day. Well, can’t blame girls though. I just remember I have this friend who never had a real Valentines date ever! I am hoping though that this time, she’ll get one. My post for today is dedicated to her and to all you women out there who are going out on a date for the first time.

Most women want to look fabulous but not unattainable, chic but not cheap on this first date. Others just don’t care! Please that’s a big No! No! You have to treat your first date like a special occasion. Okay, so there are three extremely trying times to choose the right clothes for the occasion: job interviews, first dates and meeting the parents nights. First date dressing is tough because you usually don’t know the other person well enough to predict what will be attractive to him. Add to the problem that you may or may not be familiar with where you are going, and you have the perfect explanation for women who choose to stay home in a chenille robe with a bottle of Two-Buck Chuck and a box of microwave kettle corn.

 Let’s go over some first date dress basics. Maybe you’ll get lucky and I’ll have an idea you haven’t already considered.

Any ideas on where you going on your first date?

If you can, have a conversation with your date to find out where you’re going. But be simple with your questions to make sure you dont’ sound to controlling. This will help immeasurably, even if you can just get a sense of the formality of the occasion. A good tip is it’s always better to be a little overdressed. We’ve all at some time or another ended up at the baseball game in a frilly, walk-in-the-park sundress, which beats hell out of going to see Itzhak Perlman wearing skateboarding pants (which happened to me once).

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